Love is sweeter at the second time around? is this true? a part of me is telling me that it's not true, and the other part of me is telling me that it is true. Why? for the part that is telling me that it is true is because, you know each other for too long, you already know the flaws of each other, you still miss that person that makes your world amazing. even sometimes you're fighting with each other, you dont care, it is still a part of relationship. whether you fight or not. you still love that person. And for the part that is telling me it is not true it is because there are times that we think that it cannot be work out again. It will just end up of breaking up again with your partner.
I've read a great article wrote by eHarmony called "Can Love be Sweeter the Second Time Around?"
According to the article A love can be sweeter at the second time around because, We already know what is the right and what is wrong. We wouldn't do the same mistakes that we did before. We have the experience to survive the second time relationship. We are not the same person that we used to be.
According to eHarmony: "Why? Because you are not the same person you were then. Chances are, your experience has changed the way you give and receive love for the better. These changes are assets, not liabilities, when you decide to try again."
I agree with this statement because even we're not talking about relationship we can see that when people are given second chances they tend to do different things than what they used to before, this gives us the idea that second chances might still work but, the person who is given a second chance is going to play safe.
Another good read about this topic was written by Juny: "They say love is sweeter the second time around" in which she believes that, not all second time relationship works. Because not all couples have the same love story. All couples broke up in a different way. All of it has a different reasons. Not all relationships has a happy ending. It still has no assurance if this second time around relationship could still work like it used to be. We wouldn't know what will happen next.
According to Juny: “love is sweeter the second time around” I don’t think it can be applied generally, maybe it works to few but not to everyone. Not every love story has a plot to follow and must end accordingly as it is written."
In my opinion, i think that everybody deserves a second chance, but people should not give it easily, sometimes if we want to have a second chance we need to put an effort to show the person we love that we can change and for the better.
I've learned that not all people believe in a love is sweeter at the second time around. Some people say that it is sweeter because you know each other for to to long. there is still a chance that it can still work out, And some people don't for some reasons, but for me, the part of me that believes that it is true is more dominating than it is not true.
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