When I iwas 16 years old. I entered the world of being in a serious relationship. I know I was too young for that at that time. But then, Our relationship lasts for four years and six months. We've been through a lot of situations that i believe that normal couples couldn't handle the way we do. It's not easy to be in a serious relationship. We have to be responsible for all the things that we do and we say. There are things that is hard to let go but we have to. Sometimes we realize the value of the person that we loved for a long time after break up. Sometimes the people we love are the ones who keeps on hurting us.
I' ve read a good article wrote by Ashley Fern called "The Truth Behind ‘You Don’t Know What You Have Until It’s Gone’" According to the article. We dont realize the worth of the person that we loved because, We always take them for granted, we are too comfortable that the person we love will NEVER leave us.
Sometimes we don't appreciate the things that we already have. We don't realize how lucky we are to be with the person who's always with us. No matter how hard life is they are always on our side to support but we always take them for granted.
According to Ashley Fern: “Appreciate what you have before it becomes what you had.”
Yes, this is true, Before, I do not appreciate all the things that happened to me. I am too confident that I can surive all the things that can happen. I am the type of person who always don't care of everything until I realized it is already gone. But now, I learned that everything around us should be appreciated because we wouldn't know when it will fade.
Another good read about this topic was written by Brianna Wiest "The Things We Never Realize Until It’s Too Late" in which she discussed that we realize the worth of all the the best things that we had when it is already gone. We do not know what is the best for us. We think that we are not yet satisfied on what we have. We always search for more, we thought that there are things that is better than we have right now. We do not appreciate the worth of this things until we made a mistakes.
According to Brianna Wiest: "The only thing that we look back and regret is not having enjoyed what we had when we had it."
We have to appreciate all the things that can happen to us. Because one day it can be gone like a bubble. We cannot go back in time and fix all the mistakes that we did. The only thing we can do for now is to learn from it and move on.
While writing this paper. I also realized that all of us have to appreciate all the things that we have now. What we have now is not permanent. Because, sooner or later it can be gone.
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