Blogpost 5:Are you ready to enter in a relationship?

"Hey would you be my girlfriend?" This could be one of the lines that will make the girls freak out if ever there are guys that is courting them at the moment. I don't know what will exactly girls would feel if a guy said this. There are questions in our mind that keeps on bothering us. We ask our selves if are we ready to enter in a relationship. We think of the consequences that we have to face in the future if we enter a relationship. We all know that it is not easy to be in a relationship. So yea, Ask your self. Are you really really really ready to enter in a REALationship?

I've read a good article and it was written by James Michael Sama called "10 Ways to Know You're Ready for a Relationship" In which he discussed that If a person is ready to enter a relationship, This person has to determine if he/she is willing to put his/her time and effort to the person that they like. You're willingness to put them first or make them happy first before your own. 

If you think that you're are ready to accept someone as they are. It is also one of the signals that you are ready to be in a relationship. And if you had a long term relationship before with your ex.  Your ex is no longer a factor. You dont care about him/her. You already accept the fact that you and your ex are not going back together again. And you dont feel the same way like you to. If you choose to cut your communication about your ex. It is also a signal that you are ready to love another person in your life. 

According to James Michael Sama : "Your willingness to put them first at times is a signal of your readiness to commit."

This is true. If you really like this person, You will do everything for him/her just to make them happy. We know we are ready to love someone when we realized that we are willing to do everything for the.

Another good read about this topic was wrote by YourTango Experts called by "25 Signs You're Ready For A Relationship" It discussed that there are many signs that you are ready for a relationship, What I observed about this article was if you dont have any problems on being single, then you are now ready to enter in a relationship.  If you thought of your self that you are already complete. You are now  ready to love someone in your life. You dont think that you need to be in a relationship. You think  that you want a relationship.  

You're over to your last relationship. You don't think about it too much, you are not affected anymore on your past. You know you are ready when you are willing to take the risk. You're open minded, You are ready to explore your life. You do not want to lose to your fear of falling in love with someone.  It also said that if you already accept the change that happen to your life and you're ready to grow. You are absolutely ready to start a new relationship.

According to  Amy Johnson: "  I realize someone is ready for love when they want it but don't need it. That's the absolute best place to be: wanting a relationship, believing it would be great, but not needing it for your happiness. Per the point above, being truly happy without it is often the fastest way to bring it about."

I agree with this statement. Needing is different from Wanting. For me if you say needing. You just need it. You dont really want it but you just need it. It cannot be appreciated compared to your wants. Wanting is a big factor, Wanting is not just a like, want is you really like this specific object. You know to your self that if you have this thing you will keep it and protect it with your life. 

You know you are ready to enter in a relationship when you are ready to take the risk of getting your self hurt. but, loving someone, you're ready when you're able to put the needs of other people infront of you than on your own needs.  You're ready to get loved to learn and to get hurt.